Hi NM! You do have a lot going on in your thread the last couple of days!
Dropping the rope is about letting go and letting God really...dropping the rope does not mean that we are giving up! We are moving forward with our lives but still having hope for our R's.
Hanging on is when we cannot emotionally drop the rope and it is not good for us...it makes our WAS's pull away even more...think of the R kinda like a hangman's noose, the tighter the "noose" gets the more the R gets strangled and the more the WAS wants out of the R...
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing