Sunny the LAST thing you want to do is tell your H to FILE.. If you both want to save your marriage you set an example by NOT talking divorce or reccomending it... waywards see divorce as an escape from teh pain, but its NOT...
It is as painful and laborous to END a marriage as it is to rebuild one... why go through all the pain and work of a divorce when you can put that engergy into repairing the marriage instead?
NEVER advocate divorce unless YOU WANT it... NEVER
