PDT, I get many mixed signals from W. Then sometimes I am certain this marriage cannot be saved and then again it could all be WAW script. I get too caught up in her word play and over/under analyze so many things. I am having trouble detaching the proper way. I have not completely read but will continue to read the book I have on co-dependency.
I tried pursuit because sometimes W would tell me in not so many words she wanted someone who said 'this' or did 'that' or felt a certain 'way' no matter what. I did, it failed I will not do it again.
I can tell you what is going to happen. W is going to wake up in the morning and tell me she is leaving for work. I a going to stay in bed rather than go downstairs with her. W will txt me that she "made it safe" ( I know we been through this before about the text messages in my threads, she just does it even though I told her she did not have to) I will reply "good." W will then txt me once she gets out of work. I would will text "OK"
W will come home, get changed and get ready for her Dr. apt.
Unfortunately most of the times when I just go about my own business W things I have an attitude and starts saying things like "whatever" she expects for me to be pleasant and talkative not matter what and sometimes I have a hard time doing it because I have not learned to detach properly.
Should I not be home when W gets home? That would be a first besides the days I go to church.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
