I don't think there is anyone else, i have no evidence that there is. I truly think that he is going thru something and just needs to work it out in his head. he is telling me that he can't sit and think all day so he is visiting friends and trying to stay busy. Its so hard to not just drive to where he is and watch what he is doing. absolutely sucks. Worst pain i have ever felt in my life. I want to somehow numb myself.