You do have the idea though EC, you sound solid... Most affairs don't last long and this one's got a lot of ugly business it has to face.. its not getting any support ... I can't see that affair lasting over long...
Once your H comes out he will take it from all sides I am sure... Try to get your H's sister to work on her mother along with you...
Don't forget to get child support etc... that should hit your H hard too...
I honestly see this falling apart if you can stay the course and avoid him... EVERYONE will know then... once the word is out you have moved out the exposure just takes an even bigger hit on the affair...
You can call OMW and tell her that her daughter's having sex with a married man and she should be very proud of herself...
Expose the OW at the uni I say.. hit her hard
PS : I will work on the link.. it works for some people... You may have to right click and just choose save as...
