Still chipping away at EA

[elvencat]

EC, sounds like you have a good plan in place so that's good! I'm glad you are getting some support from H's family. I wish MIL would have the guts to kick him out but, being a mom, I can understand how difficult that would be.

Stay strong!!!

Thanks Sunny.. I'm fully prepared for this stage to last a long time. H has to do the dirty work of the divorce. I will not, and he knows that I will contest unless my two conditions are met and we still can't work out our differences. H doesn't like doing the work - planning it all out, he can do that all day long. When it comes to doing it, though, if he actually begins divorce proceedings once I'm out of his hair, I'll believe it when I see it. That will give me the time it takes to continue chipping away at the affair. I hope.

Or shoud I say - for others to continue chipping away at the affair.. as I'll be NC.

I'll be too busing working on making a nice home for DD and getting myself in shape and in a place to heal from this mess.