I don't think you ever totally do. But as I read back in my daily journal that I kept, the ratio of stuff I wrote about HER, and what I wrote about ME and MY KIDS slowly did change. Whenever I read your posts, all I see is her, her, her, and all of her and her family's DRAMA.
I think you need to focus more on yourself, and let her twist in the wind. DROP THE ROPE!!!
