Can anyone tell me whether it will be beneficial or detrimental to DB'ing (ultimately to save my M) if I read Dr. Harley's MarriageBuilders and get familiar with hs concepts?

It clearly would help as part of the rebuildng process but I'm unsure of whether it would hinder "getting W to take a second look" at me and the M.

Opinions and advice would be appreciated.

I don't want to confuse myself or have too many "improvemnt programs and strategies" on the go at once. But I really want to understand the way we got to where we are and, if it happens, repair and prevent a repeat performance.

Thanks again