Still chipping away at EA

[elvencat]

I'll take that approach and try to get her to talk to me. She hasn't wanted to speak with me directly in the past about these things, but she knows how much I am trying, and how far H is going with this all. So, I'll try that way.

I can say right now H is calling his sister a hypocrite for telling him to not get divorced when she herself got divorced when her children were quite young. Her situation was a tad different, however. She finally realized she'd been living in the wrong sexual orientation, was grateful for her children with her husband, but realized a continued life as a wife was not for her... so.. she had something different going on rather than INFIDELITY.. H is just grasping at straws now to explain away any negativity.