And I am not banking on this divorce falling through...just want to go about my life and see what happens and KNOW "it ain't over til it's over"
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst ( i really hate that saying!). Go on with your life, and keep your head held high... if your WH comes back, make him fall in love with you and work hard to be a part of your life! I know you are smart enough to have a list of must haves to make the new relationship work! and good for you!
What is so hard for me, and maybe a bit misleading are all the success stories i hear of and read. Kudos to them for making it work... I am so happy for them. But at the same time, think that is the reason i can't accept my life as is. I have a few days where I accept the D and my life and then i meet some random stranger or nun or some other bizarre person who tells me their success story... and then I go back to... is this a sign from God???
of must haves to make the new relationship work! and good for you!
