Also, I don't do any snooping any more. I had my friend change the password to monitoring the cell phone online, and when I did that, I immediately lost the desire to check the things I still can (email accts that aren't secret, bank, credit card). This was about 2 months ago. NOT looking at these things has helped me immensely. I highly recommend it...only once you are ready though. Once you know you're running yourself into the ground with it.

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M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years