QS... this is NOT the time to be asking your wife out.. that does DAMAGE.. ok?
Just change yourself and her environment for the better and wait for her to come to you... If you try to force her by inviting her at all it sets you back WEEKS.. ok?
You found a family counsellor? Ist here info online about this person?
Other advice?
Try to turn the house into a palace while she's gone.. surprise her
