Originally Posted By: newmama
So I am in better shape to start life as a divorcee than I would have been if I had never discovered DBing.


Amen!!!

That's the crux of it, Xin. DB'ing is entirely about YOU. How to help yourself out of this incredibly $hitty place. Maybe you R w/H, maybe not. That is secondary.


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3