Still Moving Forward

[BeingMe]

I just realized that all H's excuses/reasons manifested itself around 2 years after we moved here to make a new start (certainly the issues with D23). Except our R - the problems there got dragged along with us. So I think he was never going to do anything about it. A strong M would've withstood the issues he has brought up ... ya know, the united we are stronger scenario. That is what I had hoped for in coming out here, to give him the opportunity to prove he could do it (make the changes), prove he can be trusted. I am still amazed he went into counselling, and I didn't know. I guess he only went once, and expected all problems to be solved from that meeting.

There's probably no point in trying to analyze his email to me. He says he will be fair, will support me as a friend with my health, and I will hold him to that. Although, he often promises things and doesn't keep them. So, we will see.

I am wondering whether we should tell the children. There would have to be some explanation since I want him to move out of our bedroom. I guess we can talk about it after the doctor's appointment tomorrow.