Update - WAW once again brought OM around my daughters visitation, and it is upsetting her boss. Her boss told my sister everything, alot of what I already know anyway.

WAW's work performance is bad, having OM in bosses house, FB garbage, threats to her Bosses son and wife, and in general her boss said she wants to get away from being the court appointed monitor. The bosses Son and Wife, are still thinking over filing warrants on WAW for the threats etc....

It is looking as if she is going to lose her job, and also I have learned she is now living with OM. Her boss told my sister that she sees no reason for the foster care, and that shed prefer DD1 to be with me. This is very very good for my case having her testify and also her son and his wife.

Also, WAW caught wind of the fact I will be going for full custody and called me 2-3 times breaking no contact, 3rd time I was like what do you want??? She said that she would fight it, and that I need to move on, the marriage is over. Typical WAW crap.

I mentioned that we could repair the M, but only after she gets help.

I said look I am doing what is best for DD1 and there is nothing you can do about it, because right now your to unstable to be a mom. Then I hung up.

She is basically nervous now that the people who were helping her now see right through her. They think she is a sociopath and only cares for herself. I am beginning to think this as well.

I continue to detach, and ponder if i should report this to the courts. I will be definitely be reporting this to the CPS worker without no doubt, but to take it a step further I could just go report this to the criminal court.

Not sure what to do really, maybe I just need to lay low.


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on