Still chipping away at EA

[elvencat]

Note : Don't bring your own parents into this, that is NOT going to help you.. It will very likley discourage your H coming back to the marriage... he can accept his own family, but he won't be able to face yours after that if they know the whole story... so try to keep the exposure on his side and to friends of his family only

This is how I've felt about doing so. But I feel like I'm running out of options that can get me into a good place quickly... the only thing I could think of is saying something like I wanted an extended vacation with parents before a new job limited my free time or something.... and stalling for time to get money for rental house. IDK....