NEW LBH, What to do now?

[CT Yank]

Oh, one further note, I have changed my ways and am working on being a better person for myself and the kids. I was on the road to being a hermit (seriously). I have no real friends, wasn’t really interacting with my family when I came home, etc because I was hurting over work and financial stuff and didn’t want to burden her with it so I kept it to myself then it just became easier to just not talk at all. She asked my D the other day if I was really changing and she said yes, in a big way, and my W walked away and said “Well, it’s too F’in late”.





Hey Navajo,

Your sitch sounds alot like mine. This statement about becoming a hermit really hit home as I was on the same path. It is one of the signs of depression. I know you might not think it but work and financial stress can catch up with you. Since you were keeping all that to yourself you were probably shutting out your WAW as well making you emotionally distant. At least that was the case for me. See a Doc maybe get on some anti-depresants.

I was hesitant at first but I've been on them for 2 1/2 months and can say I feel 100% better than I did. It will help with stress and you will think more clearly and probably sleep better as well.

And on the financial stuff, consult a L. WAW's are not honorable, at least mine wasnt. Started out wanting nothing from me "I just want out". Now 3 months later she wants half of everything, the house and 100% custody of S11. Remember believe nothing of what they say, it's the fog.