FWIW despite my H telling me "he can't be married anymore" and he is happier than ever he has many, many times expressed doubts to me. Is he lying? Who knows.
He has told me he is not 100% sure this is the right thing to do. That nobody can *ever* be sure. That he has no idea what the future holds for OW and so on. The last time he said this to me was the night before court. He also told me he didn't want our legal separation to be our "grand finale" but his next move was moving in with OW! LOL!
These men are a mess I think. The more I am thinking about the stupid text y'day the more *something* I get. As if that is okay to send such a message.
