G, I know how painful these reminders can be. Mine was in May which I was dreading for days but guess what? I forgot all about it on that day due to a new legal bomb she'd lobbed on me at the time. When I did remember it was a day or so later and just a grim reminder of how different things are now. We must acknowledge and adapt to the change and go on about our daily routines.

The thing to remember is that you didn't walk away from your committment you made to her on this day, she did. So let this day be about taking comfort knowing you represent integrity.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again