Allen, I guess I was very naive b/c I thought porn was totally harmless. I was unaware that it could affect the marriage unless the husband got totally into it.

I just had no idea that my hubby was so into it since he hid it so well... I thought he just was rejecting my needs period b/c he was not into me anymore.

I don't know how I am going to tackle the porn issue with my two boys some day. I think it's ok to look at occasionally but too much....

I am for the most part very liberal about sexuality and stuff....


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)