Here's another fridge posting for you. I have had it for many years, and had it made into a fridge magnet to remind me, even on my worst days . . . . .

" I would rather be alone the rest of my life than be with someone who makes me feel less than special"

Words to live by.

And the D? Its just a day, a piece of paper. A legality. He left without a piece of paper. He first came without a piece of paper.
Tear off a piece of Charmin and you'll have the same thing. It's what's in people's MINDS that matter. If he wants to come back, and you still want that, no piece of paper will stand in your way.

I'm far from being as secure as I might sound at this moment. There are times I just fold up and cry, but those days are becoming farther and farther apart. I realize I'm having to "SQUEEZE" out the tears. Yes I'm sad, and lonely at times. Just know that if he pushes the D, he's the one that might wake up the next morning and feel the world has disappeared beneath his feet.