My hubby makes huge efforts in the bedroom now, makes huges efforts to be a great husband. I too make huge efforts to try and be the best wife I can be. Thing is though- he is out of chances. He becomes a jerk again doing all the things he did to me I am out the door to the lawyer and he knows this. I have been very clear about it. If I suddenly get mean and nutty and refuse to change my behavior I expect the same from him. I do not think that being marriage means you put up with cr@p. I mean you tolerate things for a while and try to guide the person to a better path and voice your concerns. But if the pattern will not budge then.... Sorry think I am basically venting...
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
