June, the question sin't how do you FEEL about him using porn, the question is "is this safe to use for a married man?"

In most cases porn leads to addiction, to internet affairs, and then to physical affairs

while the porn may not upset you, it is NOT healthy for the marital home in most cases...

You are asking the wrong question here.. how you FEEL about it isn't the issue, its "is porn safe for a marriage"

In most cases the data is suggesting a resounding NO