NOte : you can just give your H the silent treatment in the interim... If he gets to be a pest, pack up you and your daughter nad leave until you feel like coming back... go out to a movie or the park or something, go to a family members' home to relax...
The more distance you put between your family and him the better for your family and you... He's on a dangerous road you don't want to be around...
Silent treatment and distance are the best route right now I think
