Exactly, don't send anything until you have a PLAN
THe letter's much better now too...
But you can't dive in, you need to plan for a living routine separate from him and preferably in a different home.
Think of yourself as a mother now, that's the most important part... Sorry, but it just sickens me how a man can smile at home, play wtih his daughter, and act like he's a big hero father while sneaking around, lying, and having sex with a woman who is overtly attacking his whole family...
It just is really creepy... Stalker creepy...
You need to get yourself OUT of that situation, but it needs to be organized... if there is a friend or famly member who can take you in then go that route, teh more family and friends you have around you the better
