4-5 times wouldn't be bad. On the day after, when you just wanted to cuddle, what if your H felt aroused from the cuddling and wanted an O? Would you ask "Again?" or say "That's too much!", or would you accomodate him enthusiastically, or something in between?
I'm asking because the concept of positively accomodating is a foreign experience to me. I've never had to accomodate my wife, as she has basically never initiated. And she has rarely accomodated me (mostly turning me down). I have heard other people who had great long term sexual marriages that each partner RARELY turned the other person down, and each partner often initiated. To me, that just sounds like fantasy.
