One year into Piecing and H is still very secretive. I find that very hard to handle. I have no access to his laptop because he has a password on it. Everytime I do manage to access it, I find evidence that he's still not over OW (just happened this weekend). I've brought up transparency a few times and I get NO response from him. VERY passive aggressive. S13 doesn't really know anything different. H does spend some time with him and he's very good with S when he decides to commit the time but usually everything/everyone else come ahead of S13 and I. We get his left over energy.
I'm going away on vacation in a week with S13. Can't wait to get away from all this.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
