[quote=TimeHeals[quote It's so simple really. Letting go of trying to fix and control others is really the easiest thing you can do.[/quote]
Makes perfect sense TH, but when you programmed like me, a Career Military Wife, the fixing and controlling of everything so that hubby could focus on career WAS your job. Now, its as if he's said " Thank you for your 20 years of honorable duty to the marriage. Here's your Cracker Jack Watch for retirement. You are no longer needed".
It SHOULD be the easiest thing to do. For me, it's been the most difficult thing of my life, and that includes dropping babies at home with no anesthesia. ( My H's idea, by the way )
