Ken I woudln't even push her for anything specific right now... Just focus on getting OM out of the way and ruining the romance... You can get her commitment a LOT EASIER when OM is out of the picture for a while... especially if its because he turns out to finally show his true colours to her and she sees him for what he is...
That should happen before you press her for marriage repair
It's not pursuit if she knows you're doing it as infidelitus interruptus. It's only pursuit when you're tagging along after them to try to BE with them, and spend time with them.
It's ok to INVITE your wife to rebuild so she understands your position, but no inviting her to family therapy, no giving her articles to read, no watching DR Phil with her on TV, etc.. .THAT pursuit is BAD
PROTECTING your MARRIAGE by supervising your wife's church movements IS OK
Remember, you arne't policing her, you are PROTECTING HER from OM...
Ken just by a cell phone jammer so seh can't use the cell phone in the house
And as we have said before "Dracula" is the addiction, not her... you can't be afraid of her addiction, that is the monster you have to drive OUT of her.. which you ARE doing
A cell phone jammer - awesome! Didn't know they existed. Where can I get one of those? I wish somebody would have told me about that before. I would have done it a long time ago.
I just checked her cell phone and OM called yesterday morning and said to her, "I love you." And she called him yesterday evening and this morning.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
