I have a question for you. Mind you this is not in any way a citicism, just curiosity. You are not the only one to express this this way. If your husband has filed, and I assume you don't want a D, why do you call them the STBXH? I understand that you can't stop anyone who truly wants a divorce from getting one, but does this signal that you are accepting of his decision regarding your life? Have you stopped standing? Again, I am not being critical, just inquisitive.
