Cyrena, you might be right to some degree, but "far less fequency" is not likely in my opinion. It's like proposing that only people who have immature sex have it often, while passionate deep love is only infrequent. That would be sad.
So, if I may politely challenge you Cyrena, what you are suggesting strikes me as the viewpoint of an LD woman.
By "far less often" I meant that even if you went from desiring sexual release, say, 8-9 times a week at the moment to having mindblowing sex 4-5 times a week, that would be a decrease of about 50% ... but I'd hardly call it "sad!"
Personally, I find that after incredible, satisfying sex, I sometimes still feel glutted by it the next day--dwelling on it, still excited by it, and filled with a special tenderness for what I shared with my H. Maybe we'll have sex that day, but often we might just cuddle up and touch and chat. It's kind of like after eating out at really good restaurants a lot while on holiday, I crave a few days of very simple food. I don't see that as "a LD viewpoint" at all.
