It's ok to INVITE your wife to rebuild so she understands your position, but no inviting her to family therapy, no giving her articles to read, no watching DR Phil with her on TV, etc.. .THAT pursuit is BAD

PROTECTING your MARRIAGE by supervising your wife's church movements IS OK

Remember, you arne't policing her, you are PROTECTING HER from OM...

Last edited by Allen A; 06/27/10 03:33 PM.