oops, I can't believe how omitting ONE word can change the whole meaning of something! I meant to say that your FIL can have screwed up when he was young but today IS remorseful and kind!Sorry, about that!
I do think that your FIL could at least write your WH a letter expressing all of his regrets. Maybe his letter would say something about how if WH abandons his daughter, he will live an unhappy life like him. I guess you wouldn't know what he says to your WH though!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
