I think the reason why I haven't been able to get help from my friends or family about how to proceed with my situation is that they don't want me to save my marriage.
And it's my own damn fault for discovering my stbxh has doubts. If I never asked him, who knows if he would have told me?
It's also my own problem for not knowing how to respond to him.
it's also my own problem for not scheduling a therapy appointment sooner because maybe he could help me.
So I am responsible for my confusion! argh!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004