Good for you, Gabbysmom, to have achieved closure! And to work on forgiveness! And to be happy without him! Did your exh also express uncertainty when he chose to divorce you?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004