Completely Blindsided

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I didn't think it'd come up, but that is a definite relief!

I think you're right with the visa... didn't get to the indefinite, so I didn't look beyond that. The plan was to never stay there that long.

Right, so your H is here now... at least it's not as far to go, right? I can't really advise on what to do about the stuff... if it's gotten nasty then all bets are off. It's hard to know what to do.

Hope the surgery goes ok though! That sounds like a fairly big operation.

What are your plans for moving down there (I've never been, but I have some friends from there.. depends on what you class as 'busy' I guess!). I need to start thinking about my moving plans too. It's just very difficult to look at things there in the new light with the new world perspective of "Just Me". We were looking at 2 bedroom flats with an ocean view before this... now I'm looking at a bedsit or boarding house.

I'm not really too sure how to go about it.