ok I just tried googling my post and it didn't come up... whew!

That's right, now I remember... 2 years spouse then 5 years of indefinite then you're eligible to apply for citizenship?

H is from where you're thinking of going to, he's already there. All the stuff was shipped to his parents'-where he is for now-(not enough time to change destination for mine) so I still have to pick them up. I don't know what to do, whether to quietly remove them while H is at work as things have turned nasty.
I'm in my country to have a surgery to remove a polyp which will be next week... hopefully the doc will give me an all clear by August sometime, then comes the crucial part of picking my stuff up.
Before Europe that's where I was and I'm familiar with the place with friends, but I'm thinking of going to the 5th largest city down south as I want a new start.
I'll see how it goes, I might decide it's a bit too quiet for me after a while.