Perhaps I worry too much but the more I post it concerns me sometimes that anyone can google and read these forums. But when you're trying to get help it's hard to keep everything discreet isn't it.
B, would you be able to get a working holiday visa and find work over there? I thought you can apply for citizenship after 5 years of spouse visa... maybe you left before then. I guess it's important to have the focus on yourself not her, if you do go over there it's got to be for reasons other than her... otherwise she'd run? One thing is for sure... time is your friend, it will make her think.
It is really stressful moving countries. In my case although we were going back to H's country he wasn't really 'with it'(not that he wanted to stay there, he just hated doing chores)... he left nearly all the removal work to me, so he couldn't really understand why I was huffing and puffing... which was the last straw for me.
