I picked up H from the airport yesterday. I was full of anxiety for about 2 days--the workers hadn't finished the drywall and there was SO much dust it took forever to clean.
I treated H very coolly on the way home (a 1/2 hour drive). He asked me a lot of questions about my week. I told him a little about my life lately (he has been completely uninterested for about 5 months--I am done pursuing him to care).
Got home and he asked why the truck was in the backyard. I told him because of the workers. He was like, huh? I said he'd see when he got in the house.
Long story short, we had a long talk, we hugged and kissed, and I got lucky!lol.
He will be cold again soon I'm sure, but 180s DO WORK!! If you have been available and "nice" and it hasn't worked, you HAVE to go the other way.
