Hey Piano... Sorry for not replying to your question properly in your thread. I thought it might be better to post here than yours. Re: custody, I think you are more or less in the safe water since you are back in your country already. What I see around me the most is when couples D and the custody is 50/50... meaning both parents have to be in the same country to spend time with the child. This prevents mums from going back to their country with the child if they are overseas... naturally they'd want to go back to where their family is to have more support. So it might be best to keep your R with H amicable... I dunno, if you need 100% custody to make sure you get to stay where you are.
It's really good that you asked your previous posts to be deleted, I was going to ask them myself... thought my 'idea' to you may have been a bit inappropriate ;-)
