Hey blind, hugs to you. I hope you are feeling better this evening. Keeping busy is good, but learning to be alone and have no activities is also important. Any reason why you don't go back to the UK? I know you wanted to start a new life here in a new city, but was it a good decision for your couple? In my case, it was the worst decision we ever made, WH and I, to move back here. WH couldn't do it. He needs to be "home" right now. Does your W need to be "home"? The deletions.. well Fullmoon and I were talking sensitive stuff I think needed deleting, so I asked the moderators to do so. I asked them to do it on my post too, but they haven't (and instead it is locked so I've started a new thread).
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369