Hey, Red.. I can relate right now to being vilified.. I just got first hand intel on what my H and OW say about me behind my back. And yet to my face, until today when I called OW's mom (OW lives in her house, but pays rent and utilities), he's been funny and sweet and everything that he was two years ago.

If H respects me so little to talk about me that way with someone else.. I'm having a hard time holding on to my belief that marriage is more important than walking away.


Me 32, H 34, DD 3
M 6, T 8
Bomb 03/10
OW Bomb 6/5/10
Separate & NC 6/28/10
My 2nd EA Thread