My stbxH is so petty it's embarrassing. I am struggling with who he is - I do not know him anymore. I look at pictures and wonder where Mr. Luv went. It makes me very sad then very mad. I can't wait for the day to feel blank.
Luv
I couldn't even count the times I've said or thought those words you wrote.
Feeling blank does come. I got the initial bomb back in July of 08. We physically separate this January. I got served papers on Friday. I'm feeling pretty blank. It's taken me 2 years, 2 attempts by her to get restraining orders (both attempts with lies and fabrications), too much venom spouted by her to quantify, her desire to try to control when I see my kids, outright lies and fabrications in a very weak Divorce action.
The things that have done it for me is every time she completely lies. I'm watching her come after me with fabricated charges and it drives these huge nails in the coffin.
Like you, I have no idea what my spouse is. This person who appears to be the woman I married isn't even a shadow of that woman she was. Totally unrecognizable.
It's a shame to see so much destruction at this site.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
It's taken me 2 years, 2 attempts by her to get restraining orders (both attempts with lies and fabrications), too much venom spouted by her to quantify, her desire to try to control when I see my kids, outright lies and fabrications in a very weak Divorce action.
