New intel and my self-confidence is slowly seeping away.. please help keep me positive somebody:

1. H and OW commiserate.... constantly..on how f'd up I am, how insane, crazy...etc... and how THEIR love can survive ANYTHING. It's like they are acting like I've suddenly declared the earth is square and noone will talk me out of it.

2. H comments to OW how FIL thinks I'm immature and has never liked me.

3. I DID find out H's Sis told him she'd have done the same thing in my place.. woohooo! vote one for me.

4. OW tells H a very skewed version of the convo I had with OWM.. and makes the comment that she's never seen her mom roll her eyes so many times in one convo.. apparently she saw mom on phone, but wasn't privy to convo.

5. H and OW are in midst of pregnancy scare, but test says no baby on way.

6. OW tries to convince H to move in once divorce is filed. H says not a good idea.. OW says, you mentioned it once, H says oh, well, I don't think it'd be good until divorce is final.

7. H tells OW lies about how he's told me he's in love with her and so on and so forth. UH, NO!

8. OW tries to convince H to move into rental since I'm not there... H says he's considering it. (NOTE: I'm not there yet cause it's not clean enough for DD to spend the night.) H tries to tell OW that the only reason I haven't moved in is because of ONE bathroom that needs cleaning. Yeah, right. Try the whole house.

9. H feels only OW and OWSister are for him and his only true IRL friends... GAG

10. H can't believe I told him my conditions for not contesting divorce are marital counseling and no affair.

11. Did I say how every other line was I Love You Baby! ?


Me 32, H 34, DD 3
M 6, T 8
Bomb 03/10
OW Bomb 6/5/10
Separate & NC 6/28/10
My 2nd EA Thread