Still chipping away at EA

[elvencat]

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I was so ready to walk away after hearing everything spewing from H's mouth that I knew to expect, but wasn't quite ready to face. Actually - this is probably the kick in the pants I needed to quit being sucked in to his placating. Won't happen any more.

I don't know that sending articles will help, but I like the idea.. the only problem is I'd have to snail mail as I don't have any way to electronicly send them. I don't know if that's a good idea or not.

And I just looked up MO law about disputing divorce. If we haven't been separated more than 6 months and I contest the divorce, the judge has to grant a continuation of the judgement for not less than 30 days and not more than 6 months, and has to recommend marital counseling (note - can't force, but has to recommend).