W wanted to go to Puerto Rico to visit her sister who is divorcing. But our visitors today may have convinced her to not go, but to rather have her sister come visit us and go on vacation with us travelling around like we did last year. She is on the phone with her sister now. I think she is trying to convince her.

Before she called her, she said to me, "If we do this, don't think that our relationship is automatically fixed. I'd be doing it for the kids." I said, "Does that mean you're still not willing to fix our relationship or not necessarily?" She responded, "Not necessarily." So I take that as a minor good sign.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.