Yes, I know damn well that I can't stop Mr. A from divorcing me, but I am NOT going to say that I agree with it or that it's all for the best.
It amazes me to think you should just bend over if YKWIM. You may not be able to stop it, but why would you make it easy for them?
2nd time today, I am going to refer to teenagers! That is how teens tend to think. (I have 3 at home, and 2steps that are older and 1 MLCer) For example, DD18 wants to move in w/ her boyfriend. I don't feel that is best for her right now. She is an unemployed college student. She says I can't stop her. No, I can't but I will not make it easy for her by continuing to pay for her car, gas, insurance, cell phone, internet access, clothes, food, and so on. She can't understand why I don't at least cover her car and phone! arggghhh
Sorry that turned into a rant...
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread