[/quote] Try to piece it together by really reflecting on what she has told you. What are her consistent complaints? What about you has she criticized? What have y'all fought about? What do her 'new ways' indicate she is looking for now?
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Greek- Not to sound stupid but I'd like to know what you are after with this series of questions? I have a pretty good understanding of where I failed her needs in the M, but I want to ask why you are asking? Surely it's not to begin exhibiting those behaviors NOW? I'd just like to understand the reason behind the questions and, once I have the answers, what and when do I do about it?
Thanks in advance.
I'm staring to figure this out. You and the other "Enchanters" on the board figure out where "WE" are in the process by the things we talk about and the questions we ask. If we're asking the right questions, it's telling YOU "where we are " in the process and how comfortable we are "inour new skin".
