NM, I CAN'T stop it. There's not a thing I can do to stop it.
But the lawyerly people involved in our case think I'm delusional enough to think I can.
That's why I was so pissed.
I understand the legal process. It's not complicated.
What I wish is that THEY would understand the emotional process!! But why does it seem like everyone involved in hearing divorce cases is happily married? I know that's not true, but it sure seems that way!
So the reason I was mad is that the JA told me the same exact thing she had said six weeks earlier - like it didn't sink in the first time to my thick, lovelorn skull! Yes, I know damn well that I can't stop Mr. A from divorcing me, but I am NOT going to say that I agree with it or that it's all for the best. That's my boundary.
