All I'll say right now about our meeting in court is that I gave a LOT more emotionally to Mr. A than he gave to me.
But thank goodness I didn't give a THING financially!
Yeah, it can be hard not to. Especially when you're the only one who has expended any - so much - effort to save what you once held so sear. MW-D says it only takes one to save a marriage. I respectfully - and adamantly - disagree. Hang in there.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac